Thursday, October 21, 2010

Update on Makita's life

I haven't been posting much lately. Things have generally been going well, so there isn't much to complain about. Exceptions:

1. Our beloved cat had to be euthanized last week. A big hit for the entire family, she was a fairly young (6 years) kitty and she was a valuable member of our household. We're all devastated.

2. My plans to get the new Leaf feel through when my 12-year old car developed problems that would require large sums of money to fix. Unwilling to invest any more into the old car, I had to get another one, and I just couldn't wait for the Leaf. I did decide to lease the new car, so in 3 years I'll be back on the car market, and by that time the Leaf will be in it's 2nd generation or so.

3. F1-1 who is particularly saddened by the demise of our kitty has taken his apathy to new lows, and is struggling to keep his grades up. No amount of positive or negative incentives have worked so far. We'll keep on dragging on, but it gets tiring.

4. My marriage to P1 is going through a bit of a low spot right now. Nothing serious. We're just over-worked, don't get to spend enough time together, always have kids around, you know the drill. We'll be ok, I'm sure, we go through ups and downs like any other couple, but right now, we're definitely in a down. The reason I think we'll be ok is that we genuinely are crazy about each other, and we see eye-to-eye on the most important things. The reason we struggle sometimes is that we're both incredibly stubborn, and a bit self-righteous, so when we do disagree on something, it poses some problems.

There is also some good news. My temporary (3-year) car isn't exactly horrible. I'm driving a brand-new 2010 Prius, and it's fa.bu.lous. What a pleasure to drive, what clever, modern design, what great gas mileage. I can go on and on, but you get the idea.

In more good news, it looks like my boss managed to secure funding for me for another 2 years, starting in January. Yeah! I love working here, so I've turned down two other job offers with better benefits to stay here. I'm so happy I stuck around. It's not cast in stone yet, but it's looking pretty good right now.

Edit: More good news, I almost forgot! Since about mid-Summer I've been trying to lose some weight. Simply eating a little better, and switching one meal a day to cereal (usually something oat-based) with fruit, I lost a whopping 18 lbs! I still have the same breakfast as always, I eat whatever I would normally eat for either lunch or dinner, and switch the other one to a modest oat-meal based meal. Today I'm wearing a pair of jeans that I couldn't fit in for the past few years. Not bad, eh?


Cath@VWXYNot? said...

I'm sorry about your cat. They become such a member of the family... I hope the hurt heals with time, and that you and P1 climb out of the low soon, and that F1-1 finds his motivation again.

My husband is super-keen to have an all-electric car, and since he loves the Maxima he has right now, it could well be the Leaf. But the plan is to run the one we have into the ground before getting a new one (it's all paid off, which is very nice) and then see what the best option is at that time!

makita said...

Hi Cath,
Thanks for the sentiments. Yes, our cat was a big part of the family. I still look out the door to see if she's on the porch and needs to be let in. She wasn't breeding well one afternoon, the next day she was diagnosed with an advanced stage of lymphoma that had spread to her lungs. She came home in a little box and was buried in our backyard.

P1 and I will most surely get out of our low, it'll just take some time. We both are truly dedicated to each other and our family.

I drove a Sentra for many years, and absolutely loved it, so I know how your husband feels about his Maxima. Yeah for all-electric cars!

Joyce said...

Makita, I'm saddened to hear about the loss of your kitty. Now I understand the meaning of your facebook post last week. As one who has experienced the death of a beloved pet (Brock), I can say that over time the pain does gradually fade away.

makita said...

Haha, I just now noticed that I wrote "breeding" instead of "breathing" in my comment. Sorry about that. Thanks Joyce.